I e-mailed my ex-husband at LEAST a week before Thanksgiving to say “I need my bundt cake pan.” I needed it to make a cake FOR THANKSGIVING. Never heard back from him. Until today, when he e-mailed me to say he left it on a mutual friend’s porch. Did he tell them why he was leaving random bakeware on their porch? No. Did he do this BEFORE Thanksgiving? No, he e-mailed me about it today, when the opportunity for bundtery has long passed. What the actual fuck?